Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents.
You’ve got three hours of responsibility which involves alcohol, good food and snogging. They have three hours of unadulterated freedom – they want to talk about wine and where the next glass is coming from. Make it fun You’ve had a hard day and need to vent to someone? Don’t get too involved ‘I can’t wait to be a dad, I’d love to meet your kids, shall we go to Whipsnade for our next date? Sometimes, one doesn't realize how tiresome it's been to continually have to nag a spouse to take out the garbage, until you no longer have to.Knowing you, alone, are in charge can be quite liberating and empowering.But once you have a child, you cannot take it back. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. There are few men who are overjoyed to spend their blood, sweat and tears on some other guy’s genetic offspring. A woman who cares so little about her children, her own prospects, and her future husband is NOT going to make a great wife. Oh, and in return, you have to make HER the center of your life. When you meet a divorced single mother, immediately start looking for the flaw. Something that drove another man to pledge his undying love to her, to have and to hold, from this day forth, and then sometime later decide “fuck this shit. Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage.Don't listen to the assumptions and over opinionated bunch that associates single moms with the 'D' word - drama.Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life. Never, ever assume a divorced woman is some innocent blushing maid cruelly abused by some terrible man. What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea?